Last week I posted on Facebook asking for thoughts and prayers.

(And I just want to say.... a small disclaimer that I am not generally a fan of writing vague posts that leave people puzzling and wondering what on earth you are hinting at... but just at that very moment asking for thoughts...

Babe shared this last year on Eliza's birthday, and I just can't describe the blessing of Eliza any better, so I share it below again... Happy happy 10th birthday to our beautiful, precious, special, baby girl - a love letter from God to us 

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Roddy and I took Eliza for an important appointment today.

We've always felt she displays autistic traits, and due to her brain malformation and unique chromosome pattern we've always accepted her little 'Eliza-isms' and worked around and with them - we've never pushed for a 'official'...

We have all been sad since Jake died on Tuesday. Today's the first day where I have listened to music and started to feel normal again. Roddy said, we all feel emotionally drained...and that's ok. Thanks to everyone who sent a nice note or comment it means a lot <3

I wanted to tell you...